Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Friday, May 15, 2009

Home School Opera


We live in a world of sound pollution-too much sound all the time. We spend so much time listening to indiscriminate sounds that we often fail to hear the music of life. We need to reduce the pollution and start listening to the most imported music-the sound that makes a Christian household a Christian household.

There is music in the sound of family worshipping the Lord together. There is music in the sound of babies laughing, of children studying at the family table, of sisters preparing meals for their family, and of mom's reading bedtime stories to little ones. When these sounds truly reflect hearts that long to please their heavenly father, they make up the aroma of life well lived before the Lord.

Of course, the most beautiful music to a fathers ear are any sounds which allow him to experience the blessing of which his children walked in truth. On this point Jesus Christ, the author of the Holy Scripture, wrote, "I have no greater joy then to hear that my children walk in truth" 3 John 1:4. I am persuaded that the sounds of a household are a window into the soul of the family.

For most American families today, the sounds being projected today are filled with the noise pollution of the television or even with the discordant shouts of family turmoil. In other cases, the modern household is an empty tomb-a shadow of what family life was meant to be. In these households, there is little sound because there are no children. Or perhaps the silence stems from years of family fragmentation in which mother, father, and children each have their own individualized lives largely lived out far from home.

The Christian household is meant to be different. It is a place of love and living.

And that means noise. It means houses filled with the glorious echoes of babies crying, of children playing, of mothers teaching, of fathers training, and even a few animals chirping, meowing, or woofing. It means life with all it's glory, sadness, and joy. It means happy homes of highly eccentric families, each with their own unique vision, style, personality traits, and expressions.

These homes are not museums. That means that they are rarely immaculate. Gloriously organized chaos is sometimes a more apt description. They are homes made up of grateful and forgiving sinners who recognize that their is no greater joy then to daily experience the nobility of the commonplace, for the simple disciplines of Christian life-prayers, studies, work-to the thrill of watching fathers eating the fruit of their labor, of moms who radiate the glory of being fruitful vines, and of brothers and sisters who gather around the family table like precious olive plants Psalms 128.

Look for these households. For there number is growing. They are part of a great spiritual work where the hearts of the parents are turning to their children and the children to their parents Malachi 4:6. And when you find them, listen. If you listen carefully enough, you may hear the sounds of little children singing. They will likely be singing psalms, and hymns, and spiritual songs, or perhaps even the sweet refrains of nursery rhymes and childhood ditties.

But for my taste, there is no sound as exalting to the spirit then the sometimes melodious but always enchanting, lyric exclamations of little ones engaged in a sacred art of home school opera.

Give unto the Lord the glory due unto his name: bring an offering, and come before him: worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness. "1 Chronicles 16:29"


Excerpts from The Little Boy Down The Road by Douglas W. Philips

Friday, May 1, 2009

Be a Light Unto Your Family

Be a light to your family-- honor the Lord with the days of your youth, for great is the reward.


One of my fondest memories from when I was a young girl
is hearing my big brother humming Amazing Grace.
He new the Lord long before I… but I received so much of our Lords grace through the transforming work I witnessed in my brother.
By GODS grace Sean has always been a rich, living, example of what fervently seeking His face looks like.
My brother would be the first to tell you he is not worthy in or of himself, but only by Gods sweet grace has he seen true growth and lasting change in his life.
To which he has been blessed to work into his wife, his children, his mother, & his little sister, (and by Gods grace generations to come)
Or should I say Gods wife, Gods children, Gods mother, and Gods little sister…


“At the end of the day, the Christian warrior fights for two things.
First, he fights for the crown rights of his eternal king, the Lord Jesus Christ.
Second, he fights for his wife, his children, his family, and his household
(Nehemiah 4:14.)
Only on these two grounds does he lawfully war for his nation.”
Excerpt from: The Little Boy Down The Road by Mr. Doug Phillips
Great book I highly recommend it.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

That They May Lay Hold On Eternal Life


We are to encourage our precious charges to live thankful lives, by example... to be found contented, full of joy and good works.

Command those who are rich in this present age not to be haughty, nor to trust in uncertain riches but in the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy. Let them do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to give, willing to share, storing up for themselves a good foundation for the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life. 1 Timothy 6:17-19

Don't forgo quiet times of sitting and talking to your little ones, also while you are side by side working willingly with your hands to create a Godly home.

Take great pleasure in expressing with word and scripture your delight in fashioning warmth around the hearth of HOME.

You ought never begrudge this sacred work, be mindful of the seeds you might carelessly plant by a loose word or resentful attitude. And do not grow weary of doing good, but be thankful for the everyday tasks that enrich, and build up, strengthen and bring maturity.
Show the laundry, the dishes, even the bathrooms all as part of you ministry in His name.
And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him. Colossians 3:17

Seek creative ways to show gratefulness for their Father... bless their father, honor him in the home always. This will bring such joy to them you have never seen.

Continue to make memories worthy of being pass down to your grandchildren.
Oh what a bountiful harvest you will reap in due time.

Daily bible stories, running hugs, huge smooches, warm smiles and friendly greetings for all who come to your home. Be the first to help, the last to leave, greedily looking for ways to bless. Mindful of others needs, if possible, even before they know them themselves. With this you will earn a good name and find contentment even in weariness of body. But not soul :)
To teach all the academics in the world and fail to do this, is to fail your children.





Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Amazing 12 Year Old Speaks Against Abortion



Hi...I think this is wonderful.
Be prepared to give an answer for what you believe.
This young girl is clear, kind, and respectful.
I enjoy the way the Lord's percepts are spoken with conviction and confidence.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Keepers At Home


Titus 2:4-5: "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their own husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, Keepers At Home..."

According to the words of God, I, one of the aged women, am commanded to teach the young women to be Keepers at home. This is not a suggestion; it is God's will for wives.

"I would therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully" 1 Timothy 5:14

God's will for a young women, according to the verse above, is that she guide the house and provide no occasion to bring reproach upon the family from Satan.


Let us give each other confidence with joyful noises and love offered through words of encouragement ~ this can mean the difference between gaining ground and giving in. Lady's it is a biblical mandate --it is fun -- and it is something we ought to do more of.


Let us Glorify God by feeding his sheep.


Sunday, March 1, 2009

Changing The World With The Vision Of Multigenerational Faithfulness



Oh that God would give every mother a vision of the glory and splendor of the work that is given to her when a babe is place in her bosom to be nursed and trained! Could she have but one glimpse in to the future of that life as it reaches on into eternity; could she look into it's soul to see its possibilities; could she be made to understand her own personal responsibility for the training of this child, for the development of its life, and for its destiny,--she would see that in all God's world there is no other work so noble and so worthy of her best powers, and she would commit to no others hands the sacred and holy trust given to her." -JR Miller

Monday, February 23, 2009

How I manage my home is a form of worship...



"I work for a King. He has put me in charge of his home. When He comes to see how I have managed His possessions and His children, I do not want to be found wanting. I want to do my best. Everything I have is on loan from Him. I have room and board and a job to do, but it is all for Him. Therefore I want to dress my best and do my best in all my work. I also want to be creative, for this is a sincere attempt to glorify Him and His beautiful creation. How I manage my home is a form of worship to Him." --Lydia Sherman